After a very long time......

After a long time, I am now posting a blog, and everything seems the same, but the location is different – I'm in Canada now. It feels good, but there are times when I think, "Oh, I am in Canada?" I've come to believe that everything that happens, happens for good. After being here for a while, I've realized many things that didn't occur to me while I was in India.

It's refreshing to leave everything behind in India and start a new life from scratch in Canada. I find it intriguing that I have to do things here that I did in India for many years. Learning new things is a chance to grow, and it's amazing how you learn something new every moment.

I used to hear a lot about life abroad, especially in Canada and the U.S., but experiencing it is totally different from what I heard. Life is changing, days are changing, and money converts from INR to $$$$$, and even the language shifts from Gujarati to English. Despite the adjustments, every moment is a learning opportunity.

Let's see what the future holds. Have a good day!

Suppose we can stop time .....

Time is a crucial aspect of life, extremely important. How wonderful would it be if we could stop or change the time? Imagine the advantages and the fulfillment of all wishes and dreams. However, the reality is that we cannot stop time.

It's easy to go along with the flow of time, but have we ever experienced what will happen in the next 2 minutes? Even 10 minutes ago, I didn't know I would be writing a blog, but here I am. Many things happen that change us and affect our lives. When we have something that brings us joy, we often don't think about the possibility of losing it. It's only when we lose it that we realize the mistakes we made. Understanding the tricks of time is challenging, and we often just go with the flow.

It's not possible for a person to change time, and it seems unlikely in the future, but there's always hope for the best.

What is change ?

Change is like the air in the world – most people need it in their lives, whether it's a change in location, environment, society, or the people around them.

How important is change? Does it really matter? In my opinion, it is important, but there should be a balanced way to embrace it. Not everyone needs change all the time, but it does help keep people mentally fit and happy. Meeting new people or getting new things often brings joy, although sometimes, people overlook the value of old things, forgetting the saying "Old is Gold." I'm not suggesting that everything old is always important, but finding a balance between old and new things is crucial.

Consider someone buying a new mobile phone with fantastic features and graphics – at the same time, the old mobile becomes less important. Similarly, in human relationships, when someone new enters a person's life, the importance of the old person diminishes. It's a natural tendency for new things to replace the old.

Change in a person can be the most painful because, unlike objects like mobile phones or TVs, people have emotions and feelings. This emotional connection makes it challenging to forget, whether it's a pet animal or another person.

Everyone and everything undergoes change, and people often seek new things in their lives because we all need a change, whether it's in things or in the people around us.

Again.........

I recently read somewhere in a newspaper or magazine that "Everything happens for a reason." Now, I believe this might be true, and I'll try to explain based on what I know and have experienced.

Are floods, earthquakes, tsunamis, or other natural disasters good? From my perspective, it seems like someone is trying to convey a message through these events. Often, we see disasters happening all around the world causing many deaths, and yet, we struggle to understand the message from nature or a higher power. We continue to harm the Earth despite these signs.

I don't understand why we can't find other ways to use resources or use them more responsibly. Every person wants to become rich, part of society, part of a state, and a state part of a nation. Every nation aims to become a superpower, leading to increased use of natural resources, ultimately harming Mother Earth.

A recent example of this is Kedarnath, where many people died in Uttarakhand, and the exact number is still unknown. Only time will reveal what happens next or in the coming years because everyone is using natural resources in vast quantities.

In conclusion, if people are not willing to understand the messages from a higher power, it seems that natural disasters might be a way for that higher power to express their anger. Let's see if we can comprehend these messages or if we will be forced to understand them in a more impactful way.

Animals..

Animals are a big part of our world. They have their own lives and communities, but humans interfere with them. Nowadays, animals and humans face a problem with living space because humans are destroying forests and entering the homes of animals. Due to this, animals sometimes attack humans.

The only difference between animals and humans is language. Both have a language, but animals understand human language while humans don't understand theirs. Humans often think about their own benefits. They kill and eat animals, and even conduct experiments on them because animals cannot speak or express their feelings.

Why do we eat animals? Don't we have land to grow grains, rice, or other foods? Don't we have rivers for drinking water? Don't we have enough land to live on Earth? We have everything, but humans prefer to live near forests for easy access to resources. Humans are more selfish than animals. Animals rarely leave the forest in search of food, but humans always interfere with the lives of animals in the forest. I believe every living creature has a right to live on this earth. It's not necessary to kill and eat animals; people can grow food instead, but human needs vary.

When killing animals, do we ever think they have a soul just like us? Humans feel the same pain when someone kills another human. Imagine being in the place of that animal for just 5 seconds, and you'll get an answer. Animals don't want to harm humans, but humans, as social animals, kill and interfere with their lives. It hurts when a human relative or friend dies, but do we ever think that animals also have families and friends? Animals feel pain when humans kill their family members, but humans aren't interested in understanding this. Humans seek only enjoyment. I read somewhere that a person who eats meat has a stomach like a mortuary.

Be aware. Put yourself in the place of an animal and feel the pain. Then, you'll find your answer whether humans should kill animals or not.

 

Teacher....

 

Teachers, whether we call them Teacher, Sir, Mem, Faculty, or Tutor, play a crucial role in our lives by imparting knowledge and guiding us toward a better future.

The term "teacher" is one we use from an early age throughout our academic journey and beyond. While the definition of a teacher has evolved, some educators remain dedicated to their work. It's essential to understand that societal changes influence how teachers operate today.

In the past, teachers had the authority to discipline students. However, in today's world, if a teacher takes such action, students often involve their parents or report the issue to the school administration. Some might even perceive a teacher as ineffective based on their teaching style. It's important to recognize that teachers have their unique ways of imparting knowledge.

Sometimes, students may not appreciate a teacher's methods or struggle to understand the concepts being taught. In such cases, students might skip classes or switch to different batches. Despite this, teachers always have the students' best interests at heart.

Sadly, the value placed on teachers today is not as high as it used to be. Teachers were once considered the builders of society, capable of making the world a better place. However, changing expectations and societal shifts have altered this perception.

Being the son of a teacher is considered a blessing. It brings the advantage of parental care along with the care and guidance of teachers. In my life, teachers have played a vital role, motivating me to contribute positively to society. My teachers have been instrumental in shaping my values and understanding of life.

From the early years of my education, teachers have influenced me positively. They laid the foundation for essential life skills during my primary education. In later years, I gained academic knowledge and insights into life. During my university years, I faced uncertainties about my future. In post-graduation, I learned valuable lessons that extended beyond the typical student experience. The two years of post-graduation provided me with a wealth of experiences and teachings from my faculty members.

I hold deep respect for teachers, not just because I am the son of a teacher, but for numerous other reasons that highlight their significant impact on our lives. Rupen

પંખીડા ને આ પિંજરુ.....

પંખીડા ને આ પિંજરુ જુનુ જુનુ લાગે બહુ એ સમજવાયુ તો પણ પંખી નવુ પીંજુ માંગે.. (મનહર ઉધાસ)

Incredible words by Mr. Manhar Udhas beautifully express the true nature of life. In his perspective, "Pankhidu" signifies the soul or spirit.

Who would willingly choose to die? The answer is simple – no one. When a person begins a new life, it involves detaching from the past and gradually forming connections in the present. Newborns often cry and feel overwhelmed, but if they could communicate from the start, the stories they might tell could be quite revealing, potentially leaving others traumatized.

I strongly believe that human babies don't speak immediately after birth or in the first two years because it might be overwhelming for others to comprehend the complexities of their past lives. In contrast, animals instinctively know how to communicate with their mothers for food and survival from day one.

Let's explore the journey of an ordinary boy from birth to death.

Ages 1 - 10 Years: Early Life

Life and death are integral parts of our existence, and navigating both requires understanding what life is and how to live it. Simplicity is the key to embracing life; it's challenging but essential. Humans have countless needs, and the struggle to fulfill them is ongoing.

Life is unpredictable, and nobody knows what might happen at any given moment. Despite knowing this, maintaining relationships with fellow humans proves difficult. Acknowledging this challenge, the author reflects on the complexity of following through with intentions. Dreams of an Audi car, a beautiful partner, a nice house, and a good life seem achievable, but when faced with setbacks, people often accept defeat and abandon their aspirations.

For those seeking a simpler life, the author proposes the following guidelines:

1. Stay Positive
2. Trust in God
3. Believe that God will not let you down
4. Recognize that if God gave you life, there is a purpose for it
5. Remain calm in every situation
6. Embrace a simple and straightforward lifestyle

While these principles are easy to articulate, the author acknowledges the difficulty in implementing them in real life. Wanting to lead a simple life is one thing; living it is a considerable challenge.

Rupen